MEET OUR TEAM
Photograph courtesy of Amy Herfurth
I am Ruth Spirer, owner, lead planner, and creative force behind Weddings and Events by Ruth, a boutique luxury wedding planning firm based in Dallas, Texas. With more than 20 years of experience, I specialize in creating deeply personal celebrations that honor tradition, embrace cultural heritage, and reflect each couple’s unique love story.
Born in Israel, I bring an insider’s understanding of the customs, symbolism, and rituals that make Jewish and multicultural Jewish weddings so meaningful. Whether you’re planning a modern Orthodox Jewish wedding, an interfaith union, or a heartfelt cultural blend within the Jewish tradition, each wedding is thoughtfully curated to reflect your shared story and heritage. I guide you with warmth, sensitivity, and expertise, ensuring your traditions are honored and harmoniously blended.
We thoughtfully manage our schedule to offer a truly concierge-style experience, where I am closely involved as your main point of contact. From your first vision to the last dance, you’ll have my full attention, meticulous planning, and flawless execution. This personalized approach allows you and your family to relax, knowing every detail is managed with care, precision, and discretion.
Whether you dream of a grand ballroom celebration or an intimate, elegant gathering, our goal is the same: to craft a timeless, luxurious wedding that feels authentically yours, stress-free and meaningful.
Planning weddings is our passion, and it would be our honor to bring your vision to life. If you are searching for an experienced Dallas wedding planner for luxury, Jewish, interfaith, or cultural weddings, I’d love to hear your story and help you create a day you’ll treasure forever.
At the heart of it all? Your story. Your style. Your celebration.
Let’s bring your vision to life with joy, ease, and elegance!
At the heart of Weddings and Events by Ruth is a simple promise: to deliver a planning experience that feels personal, stress-free, and filled with care, so that your wedding day is not only flawless, but deeply meaningful.
Weddings and Events by Ruth is a luxury boutique event planning company based in Dallas, TX, led by owner and Certified Wedding Consultant, Ruth Spirer. With years of experience and a deep passion for creating meaningful celebrations, Ruth and her team are dedicated to making each couple feel truly cared for throughout the planning journey.
Ruth is a proud member of the American Association of Certified Wedding Planners (AACWP), where members uphold the highest standards of ethics and professionalism, as well as the Society of Wedding Professionals (SWP). Her credentials are matched by a rich background in hospitality, having held leadership roles in catering and event management at esteemed properties in Israel and in the Dallas. These experiences gave Ruth a solid foundation in impeccable service, flawless execution, and an understanding of how-to bring visions to life with grace and ease. Her Israeli and European heritage, coupled with multilingual skills, have shaped her ability to connect with and celebrate couples from different Jewish cultures, interfaith, and international backgrounds. Since launching her own planning business in 2004, Ruth has become a trusted expert in creating events that honor tradition while reflecting each couple’s unique story.
What sets Ruth apart is the personal connection she builds with her clients. Every couple Ruth works with receives her full attention and care. She thoughtfully manages her schedule, so her clients enjoy a truly personalized planning experience and feel a genuine connection. Every detail is thoughtfully considered, and every celebration is designed to feel seamless and joyful.
Ruth approaches each wedding as a bespoke experience, tailored with intention, creativity, and a deep understanding of your personal vision. Her passion lies in crafting events that are not only visually stunning but also deeply meaningful celebrations reflecting who you are and what matters most to you.
For Ruth, the greatest reward comes when she sees her clients relaxed and fully immersed in the moment, hearing heartfelt compliments from guests, and knowing that every detail unfolded seamlessly behind the scenes. Beyond planning, Ruth enjoys time with her family, travelling, shopping, and music, passions that add balance and joy to her own life.
MY STORY
My love for weddings began at a very young age in Israel, where it’s customary for entire families, children included to attend celebrations. Growing up, I was often at weddings with my parents, and I was mesmerized by every detail: the joyful energy, the music, the food, and most of all, the radiant bride surrounded by loved ones. I especially remember standing near the stage, captivated by the live band and eager to join the dancing.
Years later, while working in hotels and coordinating all kinds of social events, I realized that weddings were my true passion, which led me to launch Weddings and Events by Ruth in 2004.
I feel very grateful to have built a career around something I genuinely love.
Weddings and Events by Ruth is a boutique planning company devoted to creating meaningful, beautifully executed celebrations. With a strong focus on personalized service, we specialize in Jewish, interfaith and Jewish multicultural weddings, as well as milestone celebrations. Each event is crafted with care, cultural sensitivity, and an unwavering commitment to making the experience joyful and memorable.
Ariela Shargal
Senior Lead Coordinator
Ariela has been an integral part of the Weddings and Events by Ruth team since 2009, bringing a calming presence, attention to detail, and a strong problem-solving skill.
Known for her calm confidence, Ariela is always one step ahead and ready for any challenge the event day may bring. She assists Ruth in ensuring the day flows effortlessly behind the scenes. Ariela contributes to the excellent teamwork and helps our clients relax and be present in the moment.
When she’s not coordinating events, Ariela enjoys Israeli folk dancing, recreational sport, and teaching Hebrew to the next generation.
Why Hire Weddings and Events by Ruth?
Personal Attention
Customer focused approach, treating each client as the ONLY Client.
Experience
Over 20 years of experience in event management with a strong background in the hospitality industry.
Professionalism
Trained and certified as a Wedding Planner by AACWP, a premier organization of elite planners.
Jewish Wedding Expertise
Knowledgeable on the traditions and customs of different denominations and cultural backgrounds within the Jewish faith, creating meaningful events.

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Following our conversation, you’ll receive a personalized proposal crafted just for your celebration